Wednesday, July 22, 2015

How To Deal With Grief

This is a page I'm working on to help those who have lost loved ones, or for you to share with those who are going through grief.

The Edmond Church of Christ provides many resources along with its ministerial staff, a Grief Share ministry, individuals to talk with, Mathews Funeral home has grief groups, and a number of other resources.

Psalm 31:5-16
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                               STAGES OF GRIEF
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  • Grief has an impact on every person.
    • Grief can sometimes be very isolated.
    • Often grief is more public.
    • Grief is a serious matter.
    • We must prepare ourselves to be realistic about grief.
  • Blessed are those who mourn.                             Matt 5:4
    • Our culture doesn't value mourning.
    • Jesus mourned.
    • Christians mourn.
    • We don't always mourn the right way.
  • Recognizing sorrow.
    • Sorrow is the sadness due to a loss.
    • Despair is the loss of all confidence or hope.
    • Self-pity is the self-indulgent lingering on sorrow.
  • Drinking the cup of sorrow.
    • Grief comes in different quantities, but is always limited.
    • We cannot feel God's comfort until we have felt our sorrow.
  • Some psychologists divide the grieving process into four stages.
    • Numbness.
    • Searching and yearning.
    • Disorientation.
    • Reorganization.
  • Allow others to grieve.
    • We cannot judge when another person has cried enough or
    • There is a place for grief in God's presence.
  • The Church must minister to those who grieve.
    • Three out of every four women will be a widow.
    • Those who have grieved can give comfort to others.     2 Cor 1:4
    • Grieving people are open to the promises of God.

Broken Hearts from the loss of a loved one.

There are many in our congregation willing to "listen" and walk along side those who are going through this type of grief. One of our own members Kathy Z is a widow who is always willing to listen because she cares. 

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